For dating Christians, having a relationship full of fun and love must be weighed with self-control and upholding the faith.At times, Christian principles of chastity, honesty and worship present challenges but these same foundational guidelines also promote a wholesome and holy relationship based on trust, love and respect.Don’t settle for someone whose not going to work at marriage and on his God-given role. Understand what is appropriate behavior for your relationship.
A new movement within the Church is the men’s rights movement, also known as MRA, or the Red Pill or the manosphere.
Just briefly, the manosphere claims that women are driven by a genetic trait that they call “hypergamy” meaning that women are going to marry men they think will reproduce the best, i.e.
Avoid dating men who are new to your church and who you are not very familiar with.
There are dangerous men out who may look and talk Christian, but represent something very different.
Also, and I can’t emphasize this enough: be aware that there are wolves out there in search of sheep.
There may be young men who come to your church looking specifically for a Christian girl in order to prey upon her.
The movement gained widespread exposure following the best-selling response to I Kissed Dating Goodbye, a popular contemporary treatment of Christian courtship by homeschool student Joshua Harris.
When it comes to sex, most married Christians just do what works for them.
You want to beware of men who would “sweep you off your feet”, who would try to establish your relationship too quickly, as you want to exercise your Spirit-led sensibilities to guide you.
Avoid behaviors and situations where temptation could enter in.
Avoid temptations of the flesh, as Christianity calls for followers to remain chaste until marriage.