" When a man tells you this, it is a big red flag that he does not have the intention of taking your relationship to the next level. He avoids serious talks about the future by diverting your attention.
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As it is, I think our timeframe is most likely the first half of 2011.""We are still apart on wanting children. I guess the complication is why her opinion changed and why we are still together.""There's a great deal of truth to needing things to be fresh and spontaneous.
The underlying problem is that by this point in my relationship, it feels like we've mimicked a full life-cycle.
Here's what they had to say about why they're not proposing:"She was slow to want to move in with me and seems somewhat petrified of marriage.
My only constraint is that I would never propose without living with a girl for at least a year, so I would probably be willing to propose in the next few months if she was ready. She switched her position on having kids after we had been dating for four years.
We moved in together last fall, and have been very happy with this step.
We enjoy living life together; we like traveling and going out.
He may mention the buffet and that he is hungry so he can avoid having to face any questions from the conversation. He tells you he is too stressed at work to think about getting married now but maybe in a few months he can focus on it.
He is doing this to buy more time with you before being cornered into dealing with the subject of marriage. He avoids talking about a deeper commitment and tells you he is "happy the way things are -- why ruin it?
Before making any final decisions, talk with your man about his long-term intentions.