Therefore, you must forget about the awesome Honeymoon Period you had.Also, forget about all the potential you think your partner has. This is why it’s vital that you work on your inner core every single day.Cluster B personality types, which includes BPD, are more common than ever.
However, better mindsets lead you to better relationships. Am I saying that your BPD relationship will pull a 180 and be healthy forever? You’ll develop a better sense of power and direction. And, if you happen to have BPD yourself, you can make great strides in your own life by following my advice. The world today is much different than it was 10 years ago or so.
If you attained all these things, do you think your relationships would improve? Your environment and life experiences determine your mental and emotional state.
They come and go as they please, and there’s nothing you can do about it.
Often times in BPD and Bipolar relationships, less is more.
Nearly everybody these days is on the BPD spectrum.
3) Learning what NOT to do is just as important as learning “tips” and “techniques.” 4) Drop the “Savior Mentality.” You’re not the Hero. 5) Strong emotional control is key to these relationships. You You can’t experience loving, fulfilling BPD/Bipolar relationships without a healthy state of mind.
First of all, I understand that BPD is a cluster B disorder. Hence, arming yourself with the best mindsets will give you control over your mind.
Furthermore, I am aware that Bipolar is a serious issue. But, what I will say, is that attaining complete control over your mental and emotional state gives you the best shot at a better relationship. So, let’s focus on achieving imperfection that satisfies you and your partner. You will lower your stress levels, you will feel happier and you’ll have more confidence.
I don’t like disrespect, insults, or lies as much as the next person. If you’re not careful, you’ll find yourself pulled into an argument that you can’t win.
Let me make this clear: you will never win in an argument with a Borderline (or any woman, lol).
1) A change of mindsets is absolutely required when you’re dating someone with BPD or Bipolar.