Every day when we get up, no matter who we are or what culture or subculture or whatever we belong too..put on a costume. Just because they wear these things, it just might very well make them feel good and sexy about themselves. People weren't going around going "fat people EUWW!
It's not they that are embarrassing themselves, it is you who are embarrassed because it make you feel uncomfortable. ", they were talking about people wearing clothes that don't suit them, IN a thread devoted to the discussion of clothing.
So, if you’d been wanting to hop onto that treadmill for days or do those crunches, voila, you got a workout buddy, matey! They can have that ohh-so-sexy strut about the kitchen while some really yum dishes get spread out on the table. Especially during those long, chilly wintry nights when everything is nippy. Third, if you are going down and lift our over-a-buck-ninety b*tt cheeks to snack up – well, you have a meal and a workout combo rolled-in-one.
All you gotta do is snuggle up with us – and ooh – warmth… 😉 And of course, there’s no bones about it – your bone’s gonna get some meat and how. Second, the body slamming can be dished out and we can sure as hell take it. Don’t believe me, watch your biceps flex and pump next time!
If you are fat like me, or used to be like some other lucky ex-members of our club who probably bribed the weighing scale to flash skinny, you know the forever-itch to lose weight. Shedding those extra pounds so we don’t have to hide in the shadows, be whisked to dorm rooms and apartments under the cover of night, and then, sent right back in the wee hours of the morning lest some frat bro or roommate belittle the conquest of our douchebag date, used to be our ONLY wish in life. No, I am not ranting – coz I myself find the bitter ‘’ kind of token consolatory refrains mean and derogatory! But there is an undeniable stigma attached to dating a fat girl – like we can be ‘oodles’ of fun to pick for a night but never worthy of being on your arm on date nights or introduced to your friends, much less grace wedding pictures! Or even if you do, you have the know-how for dating one.
I am also done dating the tonnes of others who’d deny that I am fat and insist that I am beautiful! To the men – Dating a fat girl may not fall under your quintessential notion of ‘achievement.’ But who made skinny girls queens of the world anyway!
It's, overall, a huge embarrassment to anyone of a "curvy" or "voluptuous" type who can dress themselves well.
(There are many other factors tying into my dislike of vastly overweight people, but those don't pertain to the topic at hand.That said, as a full figured woman in the goth subculture, I have seen many overweight to morbidly obese woman who are basically embarrassing themselves by squeezing into too-small PVC tops, or corsets that are clearly poor quality and straining against their shape, or other poor wardrobe choices.Sad world that we judge people by what they wear and how they wear it. Maybe you should start a letter campaign to all the makeover shows that target poorly dressed people. __________________ To the somethingness Which prevents the nothingness Like Homer's wild boar From trashing this way and that Its white tusks Through human beings Like crackling stalks And to nothing less I offer this suffering of my father "The Offering" - Stan Rice Saphyra Runa, unless you've never in your life looked at someone and disliked their outfit, the level of outrage shown here is a little hypocritical.Most (not all, but most) fat/obese women don't know how to dress their size and think they can still shop in the same stores they did when they were 13 and their metabolism was still bullet quick. I partially even envy them for the confidence with which they carry themselves.(I'm still working up to that level of confidence myself) Unfortunately most fat/obese women (not restricted to the goth scene only, but in most scenes) just don't get that they are NOT the size they were in grade school and hence CANNOT fit into the same size clothes.Sure, dating a skinny chick may seem like something to brag about – but both you and I know that REAL relationships need more than plain vital stats. 😉 Today, I will answer the big, fat ‘WHY’ about dating fat girls.