“I only talked to her for a couple minutes at the gym after her set.” “This girl at the bar was talking to me while getting a drink, but it was just for a few minutes.” “I met a girl at this event but we didn’t get past small talk.” A woman knows whether or not she’d give you her number within minutes of meeting you.If she gives New rule: “If I’m talking to a woman I find attractive for more than one minute, I must ask for her number before I leave the conversation.” This is the craziest way I see guys blow their opportunities. She was just being polite and probably isn’t interested.” Bullshit!If they’re out and single, women scan the room for potential guys. New rule: “I will assume that any woman who makes eye contact and smiles at me is open to conversation.
So they overcompensate and protect themselves by pretending to be unavailable. Then they respond accordingly by acting distant to protect themselves, too. So when you finally invite her to do something, she doesn’t give you a concrete answer.
They think it will make them seem more valuable and less needy. She plays it cool and says “maybe next week” or “I’m not sure what my schedule is.” You play this endlessly frustrating game where you both don’t commit to moving forward.
Delaying your responses for hours or days does not make you more attractive. New rule: “I will respond within 4 hours of getting a text from a girl.” Having a new girl respond over text feels great.
You’re actually being MORE NEEDY by faking disinterest just to get someone to like you. And sometimes, you just want to hold onto that wonderful feeling.
You do that by having a couple lighthearted, silly, or playful messages to get a laugh.
Once that’s been established, you need to push forward. Most women are in the “buying” mood while on the app and will make plans with a guy then and there.
If a woman responds to you, she’s deciding that you are a potential mate.
You only need to convey one thing: that meeting up will be a fun, easy going experience.
You get a girl’s number and then do nothing with it! I also know you’re afraid of getting a response because that means you have to take the next steps. It took you longer to come up with that excuse than to send a one-sentence text to her.