They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that. If he disappears, it’s because he isn’t the right guy for you.
Remember, if he wanted to see/speak to you, he would. You didn’t do anything wrong and you are “good enough” to have the relationship you want with a man you want, this guy just wasn’t it.
I know plenty of gorgeous, smart, funny, successful, amazing women who have had the vanishing act pulled on them and it didn’t make them any less gorgeous, smart, amazing, etc.
Your relationship status should never determine your worth as a person. Immerse yourself in work, spend time with friends, check out a cool new bar or museum, try out a new exercise class.
MORE: On Loving Yourself and Becoming More Confident 3. Keep your schedule jam-packed so there isn’t a crack for him to slip right in.
Staying busy and keeping your life fun and fulfilling will also have positive long-term results and will put you in a better position to attract an even better guy. — I hope this article helped you understand why men disappear and gave you helpful tips on how to deal with it. Before a man disappears, there will be certain signs.
Now lets all breath a sigh of relief that those Houdinis did us the courtesy of finding something better! He may start to withdraw, to lose interest, and you just feel that something is off.
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Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn’t want to be with you anyway? You want to be with a guy who can’t believe his luck that a girl like you would choose him! He may have left you, don’t let him take your dignity with him.
OK, so now that we know why, let’s talk about what to do to help you move on to greener pastures. Girls will come up with all kinds of deluded reasons why they absolutely must initiate contact.
He stopped initiating contact with you because he is no longer interested in you.